What a beautiful late summer morning. The air has just the right balance of warmth and coolness, the birds are keeping their communication at a pleasant decibel, and the breeze stirring up the leaves promises to be refreshing.
I got up this morning, dragging myself down the stairs (which is still better than falling, by the way), took Ryan up to the bus, then decided not to go curl up on the couch (which was tempting). Mornings really are not a bad time of the day when one is awake to enjoy them.
Getting the oatmeal started on the stovetop, I headed upstairs to help Adrienne with something, then gathered my glasses, my laptop and…what am I forgetting?
Oh dear, the oatmeal. On the stove. Cooking. Well, make that starting to burn. I salvaged what I could, being very careful not to scrape the bottom of the pan. Then cutting up a banana into it, I added cinnamon, peanut butter and a splash of almond milk. Now, I gathered the laptop, the oatmeal and a cup of pumpkin coffee and went to the porch.
I was greeted by this.
Now, don't get me wrong. I appreciate spiders. I do.
When they are outside, in their own space. Not mine.
This one, which I never did see, but imagined was large, hairy and inevitably black, was in my space.
The web literally went from the edge of one window to the middle of another window, with sticky strands attached to my plant, my candle holder, a framed picture, and my chair.
Not a typical web with distinct strands in a traditional spiderweb shape, but a tangled mass of random sticky threads that brought to mind Shelob from Tolkien's The Lord of the Rings. I decided I wasn't giving in to this spider. I sat on the porch, ummm, just not in my normal spot, now swaddled in fine filaments of web.
I really need to clear the web away, but I am wondering what good it will do, if the source of the web is still out there. Somewhere. Even as I sit here, I feel itchy, wondering where she is. On my leg? On my head? My shoulder? Adrienne came out to join me, sitting in the web festooned chair until I told her to look to her right. She shuddered, shrieked and promptly removed herself.
Still, I remain. Spider or no spider, I am going to enjoy today, because it is a gift. As for "Shelob", she can have another day on the porch, on my chair. I am feeling gracious.
Love,
Dianne
Wednesday, September 11, 2013
Tuesday, September 10, 2013
The Patience of a Morning Glory
Patience is not always one of my better virtues.
It is safe to say that this is one of the "fruits" that needs some attending to.
It's not that I am always like "Give me what I want NOW!".
It's more like, "Give me what I want in my time frame, not God's"
Or, I want it (whatever "it" may be) done my way,
and I have little patience for the one not following my lead.
"Patience"
What is it, really?
pa·tience
ˈpāSHəns/
noun
- 1.the capacity to accept or tolerate delay, trouble, or suffering without getting angry or upset."you can find bargains if you have the patience to sift through the dross"
synonyms: forbearance, tolerance, restraint, self-restraint, stoicism; "she tried everyone's patience"perseverance, persistence, endurance, tenacity, assiduity,application, staying power, doggedness, determination, resolve,resolution, resoluteness"a task requiring patience"Just wondering, really wondering, what "phlegm" has to do with patience.Do you see it up there? Right alongside words like "stoicism", and "calmness", there is "phlegm". Ewww.Thinking about patience, and right now I am having a hard time being patient as my laptop is putting my words off-center,even after I told it to put them directly in the center.Grrrrr.But, that being said, being patient often has it's own reward in the end.Take for an example: gardening.I would love my gardens to look like this:…or this...…but that takes time, and patience.Lots of it.And I don't have a castle.But…I do have a home.With Morning Glories that I've been waiting to see bloom all summer long.Yesterday…the first bloom!Then I am amazed by the work this plant has been doing, albeit oh so slowly.
Impressive.
Wouldn't you agree?And to think, about 2 weeks ago, I thought the seeds I'd planted were duds.What if I'd not had patience and ripped the plants out?I would've missed out on a blessing.Patience.I'll keep working on it.Love,Dianne
Sunday, September 8, 2013
Just Call Me Rosemary
Sprawled out across the window seat in the
now quiet kitchen, in a rather unladylike pose that her grandmother would have
scolded her for, her chin resting in the palm of one hand, the young woman used
her other hand to lazily write her name on the misted windowpane.
“Rosemary.” Just Rosemary.
Using her sleeve, she wiped her signature
away to reveal the lazy September rain falling from a gray sky. Martha, her
cat, every bit as gray as the clouds, sat beneath the coppery green-stained
birdbath, claiming whatever shelter it offered.
Rosemary smiled. One lone, adventuresome sparrow was frolicking in the
bath, taking advantage of the warm rain. The sweet little bird had no idea that
the “mistress of bird catching” sat just inches below. Clueless.
Rosemary sighed deeply. Clueless and naïve,
but happy nonetheless; sometimes, she thought, it is better that way.
A quick, rather quiet knock at the kitchen door
shook her away from her thoughts. Rising from her perch, knowing she was the
only person home at the moment to answer it, she quickly smoothed out her wool
crepe gray skirt, straightening her simple black peplum blouse. Catching her
reflection in the large tarnished mirror, recently moved down from the attic
for repair, Rosemary gave her dark brown hair a quick smoothing, catching it
back into a low chignon. Pinching her cheeks for a little more color, she
remembered her Grandmother Helena saying, “a spit and a shine and you’re good
to go.” Tears threatened to well up at the memory and Rosemary, using the sides
of both hands, swiped at her eyes quickly as she made her way to the door.
Now is not the time for tears, she thought, as the
visitor knocked again, three precise raps, more insistent this time as if the
owner’s mind had been made up. Rosemary breathed in once, then again to regain
her calm, then pulled the door open.
There, holding a black umbrella with one of
its spines broken was a woman wearing a rather shapeless dark brown dress. Not
an old woman, Rosemary thought, but one that looked old within the depths of her eyes. A flash of recognition sparked
briefly in those same eyes before becoming guarded.
Rosemary, briefly unsure of why a visitor
would be knocking at the worker’s entrance to the home, suddenly remembered
that an advertisement had been placed three weeks prior, the day before her
grandmother had become gravely ill. Their cook, who always had been loyal, had
eloped quite unexpectedly with Mr. Penrose from the next town over, leaving the
household in a bit of chaos. A Help Wanted notice was posted, but then in the
days that followed, everyone was caught up in caring for Helena and
quarantining the home as a precaution as her illness was so sudden, severe and
undiagnosed.
After her death eight days ago, the remaining
staff, consisting of one housekeeper, one maid, one butler/chauffeur, and one
gardener, had been busy cleaning the entire house from top to bottom. Today,
Rosemary had just needed it to be quiet, even for just a little while, and had
sent them out to purchase needed supplies. All of them had orders to eat out at
the cafeteria on the corner of 5th and Main. She had just wanted to be alone in
the house. Now, this interruption
Grinning politely, though she didn’t feel
it, she offered her hand saying, “Good day, I’m Miss Wells. What may I do for
you?”
The women timidly shook Rosemary’s
outstretched hand, and then from the pocket in her dress, she pulled out the
cutout advertisement, neatly folded into a tiny square. “I’m here about the
position, the cook’s position, if it’s still available.”
Knowing that her time of reflection was over
for now, Rosemary invited her in. Shaking the droplets off the umbrella, the
women closed it, and then placed it in the corner, behind the door. That’s odd,
thought Rosemary. That was exactly the same way Grandmother always did it.
"It
is a pleasure to meet you Miss Wells. My name is..." the woman paused
briefly, "It is Violet Simms. Just call me Violet."
"Yes,
the position remains open. We've had a recent death…" Now it was
Rosemary's turn to pause. "I'm sorry, I am just not put together very well
today, but yes, we can talk. We do need somebody and we have all just been
doing what we can do get by. I’m afraid I am not much of a chef. Neither is
Fields the butler, although he can scramble eggs and Mrs. Riley, although a
marvelous housekeeper, cooks rather blandly, and then…” her voice tapered off.
“I’m sorry, you really didn’t need to hear all that, did you? I’m just out of
sorts today, that’s all.”
Without
a word, Violet Simms got to her feet and busied herself at the stove, getting
water on to boil in the kettle. Then opening a few cupboard doors until she
found what she was looking for, she set about making a pot of tea.
Rosemary
watched in silence, then in relief. A genuine smile bloomed, this time truly
felt, and she said, “Violet, the job is yours if you’d like it. And please,
just call me Rosemary.”
(To be continued…maybe…hopefully…a little nervously….)
Love,
Dianne
Friday, September 6, 2013
A Lesson in Customer Service
Customer service: this was the game of the day and I was on the receiving end.
It all started in a large department store when Amy and I detoured to look at another computer for the desk. Our old desktop is ancient and recently gave up any thought of productivity. We looked at a few that had possibility and when I finally found someone to help us, she wasn't much help at all. She was more like the babysitter for the area, answering a basic question, but not much real help was offered.
We left without purchasing a computer.
Here is a simple but powerful rule: always give people more than what they expect to get.
Nelson Boswell
“Service, in short, is not what you do, but who you are. It is a way of living that you need to bring to everything you do, if you are to bring it to your customer interactions
Betsy Sanders
People don't care how much you know until they know how much you care”
― John C. Maxwell
Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echos are truly endless ~Mother Teresa
It all started in a large department store when Amy and I detoured to look at another computer for the desk. Our old desktop is ancient and recently gave up any thought of productivity. We looked at a few that had possibility and when I finally found someone to help us, she wasn't much help at all. She was more like the babysitter for the area, answering a basic question, but not much real help was offered.
We left without purchasing a computer.
Here is a simple but powerful rule: always give people more than what they expect to get.
Nelson Boswell
Then, we continued throughout the rest of the store, gathering breakfast items, fruit, vegetables and milk before ending up in the shortest line we could find that was not a "self check-out" line. Those self scanners don't get along with me and I always end up needing help. Always. It does not save time.
So there we were in line and before I knew it, our cashier had me singing (in my head) "Hey Mickey you're so fine, you're so fine you blow my mind…Hey Mickey!" I don't know the rest of the song, and maybe that's a good thing, but that one line was in my head as our cashier, Mickey, checked our items and bagged the items.
Mickey was personable. Friendly and talkative, but always appropriate and doing her work at the same time. Efficient. She went above and beyond to make sure my groceries were packed in bags the best that they could be. My bread was not squashed, my grapes weren't either. You could tell, she enjoyed serving us. And if she didn't? She certainly made it believable.
Betsy Sanders
After we left there, Amy and I headed to her orthodontist appointment. Once her braces were adjusted, green rubber bands in place, we checked out. Asking the doctor a few questions though was just enough reason to disrupt the normal flow of checkout. The receptionist forgot to schedule our next appointment and she forgot to give Amy a school excuse. Now, she was very nice and really friendly, but having to turn the car around to go back and get a note for the school so Amy could play volleyball tonight, was quite inconvenient.
Well done is better than well said.~Benjamin Franklin
My day as a customer continued at Sheetz (breakfast sandwich for Amy, coffee for me) where they gave us half the order and we had to wait while they looked around in confusion as to who had "#194". Umm, that's us. Then it was on to NAPA Auto parts (new brakes, again!) and then I finished the evening at the volleyball game, when we paid for our admission and offered a discounted season pass.
At each stop along my day, I thought about how each person was there to serve the customer, and on this day, it was me. Some left me with a smile, some left me wondering "why?" and others just gave me a reminder that we are all human and we all need grace.
It left me wondering what kind of customer service I provide, not just on my job, but in my every day life. As a mom, as a wife, as a sister, a daughter, a friend. Do I listen? Do I genuinely care? Do I let my every emotion show on my face when some are better left hidden? Do I judge unfairly? Do I put myself in their shoes, their situation? Yes, it left me wondering.
People don't care how much you know until they know how much you care”
― John C. Maxwell
Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echos are truly endless ~Mother Teresa
Love,
Dianne
Wednesday, September 4, 2013
Made It Through August!
August is over, has been over for a couple days. I enjoyed the challenge of writing something every day in that month; it made me open my eyes again to the simple things around me. Not only that, but I can't say that I am remembering any really bad days where I felt the dark cloud of depression closing in. I know writing isn't for everyone, but I am in tears as I write this, just so thankful for what it has meant to me in my life. Wow. That's all I can say. I don't know why it helps me keep my perspective in line, why it helps me see that what I fear isn't so scary, why it dissipates the anger or frustration that is brewing so close to the surface.
But it does. And I am so thankful.
The written word has always been powerful. The saying, "A picture paints a thousand words" is also true as I enjoy taking photos and capturing a second to remember forever. Sometimes words aren't necessary, but together the words and the photos make up my blog. I don't have lots of ads (at least they don't pop up on my Mac; sorry if they do on other operating systems!) and I try not to get to many distractions going on. My blog is just me, living life as it comes.
But now, I go back to the first part of August. I said that if I get a post on for each day, I would have a drawing of some kind to celebrate. Because I like to celebrate, that's why. And sometimes I just want to give back, in some way, to say "thanks" for reading, because it motivates me, you inspire me.
So...it comes to this. Should I bake something? Should I make something? Should I send out Starbucks gift cards (because that's usually the only time I go there is with a gift card and it feels like such a treat when I do)?
How about an option?
A) Chai Latte Cupcakes (because after the bridal shower, I am a pro at these)
B) An old barn board with old spoons attached to use as hooks.
C) Starbucks Gift Card. 'Nuff said. Some things don't need pictures.
Here's what you need to do. Leave me a comment on Facebook (either under my name or under the vintageDandelion page), directly on the blog, or join the blog as a member. Any way you would like, just so I have a name :) . Then let me know your preference. A. B. C. Easy as pie. Or cupcakes.
Love,
Dianne
But it does. And I am so thankful.
The written word has always been powerful. The saying, "A picture paints a thousand words" is also true as I enjoy taking photos and capturing a second to remember forever. Sometimes words aren't necessary, but together the words and the photos make up my blog. I don't have lots of ads (at least they don't pop up on my Mac; sorry if they do on other operating systems!) and I try not to get to many distractions going on. My blog is just me, living life as it comes.
But now, I go back to the first part of August. I said that if I get a post on for each day, I would have a drawing of some kind to celebrate. Because I like to celebrate, that's why. And sometimes I just want to give back, in some way, to say "thanks" for reading, because it motivates me, you inspire me.
So...it comes to this. Should I bake something? Should I make something? Should I send out Starbucks gift cards (because that's usually the only time I go there is with a gift card and it feels like such a treat when I do)?
How about an option?
A) Chai Latte Cupcakes (because after the bridal shower, I am a pro at these)
B) An old barn board with old spoons attached to use as hooks.
C) Starbucks Gift Card. 'Nuff said. Some things don't need pictures.
Here's what you need to do. Leave me a comment on Facebook (either under my name or under the vintageDandelion page), directly on the blog, or join the blog as a member. Any way you would like, just so I have a name :) . Then let me know your preference. A. B. C. Easy as pie. Or cupcakes.
Love,
Dianne
Monday, September 2, 2013
Take That Dive
I stood, poised on the edge. The very edge.
I wanted to do it, I really did.
But I just couldn't take that last step, that final plunge.
My heart was pounding.
I didn't even know for sure why I was scared; I just was.
Intimidated.
Out of control.
If a 3 year old could do this, so could I.
Right?
Just take a deep breath and GO!
I tried that.
It didn't really work.
I tried praying.
But then I remember, He walked on water.
I can't.
My nephew went first.
Now I had no choice.
All eyes were turned my way.
They supported me.
They had my back.
I tried not to think too much this time.
I walked to the edge and stepped off.
I plunged into the deep end of the pool,
barely touched bottom and started to come back up.
Where was the surface?
Just kick.
Then, a hand.
My brother-in-law, right there to make sure I was okay.
And I was.
I did it. I jumped off the diving board, something I'd never done before.
I don't really swim.
I was afraid, but I wanted to do it.
After all, if my 70-year old mother could plummet down the water slide, I could do this.
I would do this.
But it took faith.
Faith that I'd rise to the surface.
That my family would rescue me if I needed it.
Faith that when I jumped into the unknown, I'd be okay.
It only took a while.
My daughter said that the birds were circling overhead.
Really now.
But wanting to do something and having the courage to do it are two different things.
Such a small thing really, jumping into a pool, but for me it felt big.
It was stepping out of my comfortable, solid ground zone.
And you know what? It was okay. I survived.
And I can do all things, even the things that scare me silly, or make me feel stupid, or are just plain hard, because I know that I have God to back me up. He's got my back, even when I forget or don't feel that He is there. He is always there.
Love,
Dianne
I wanted to do it, I really did.
But I just couldn't take that last step, that final plunge.
My heart was pounding.
I didn't even know for sure why I was scared; I just was.
Intimidated.
Out of control.
If a 3 year old could do this, so could I.
Right?
Just take a deep breath and GO!
I tried that.
It didn't really work.
I tried praying.
But then I remember, He walked on water.
I can't.
My nephew went first.
Now I had no choice.
All eyes were turned my way.
They supported me.
They had my back.
I tried not to think too much this time.
I walked to the edge and stepped off.
I plunged into the deep end of the pool,
barely touched bottom and started to come back up.
Where was the surface?
Just kick.
Then, a hand.
My brother-in-law, right there to make sure I was okay.
And I was.
I did it. I jumped off the diving board, something I'd never done before.
I don't really swim.
I was afraid, but I wanted to do it.
After all, if my 70-year old mother could plummet down the water slide, I could do this.
I would do this.
But it took faith.
Faith that I'd rise to the surface.
That my family would rescue me if I needed it.
Faith that when I jumped into the unknown, I'd be okay.
It only took a while.
My daughter said that the birds were circling overhead.
Really now.
But wanting to do something and having the courage to do it are two different things.
Such a small thing really, jumping into a pool, but for me it felt big.
It was stepping out of my comfortable, solid ground zone.
And you know what? It was okay. I survived.
And I can do all things, even the things that scare me silly, or make me feel stupid, or are just plain hard, because I know that I have God to back me up. He's got my back, even when I forget or don't feel that He is there. He is always there.
Isaiah 43:2
New International Version (NIV)
2 When you pass through the waters,
I will be with you;
and when you pass through the rivers,
they will not sweep over you.
When you walk through the fire,
you will not be burned;
the flames will not set you ablaze.
I will be with you;
and when you pass through the rivers,
they will not sweep over you.
When you walk through the fire,
you will not be burned;
the flames will not set you ablaze.
Love,
Dianne
Sunday, September 1, 2013
A Bridal Shower
A bridal shower was held today in honor of the upcoming nuptials (isn't that a cool word?) of
Aaron & Lisa-Anna. We planned, we schemed, we delegated and it all came together. A very good day indeed.
Adrienne and Emily, as two of the bridesmaids, searched photos to find just the right ones to embarrass the happy couple. Did I say embarrass? I meant to say that they were finding photos to show how sweet and cute they are.
Natalie, the maid-of-honor and Lisa-Anna's younger sister, cut out some silhouettes and I then glued them to old pages from a book, folded hymnal pages and added lace to come up with a banner.
Some miniature roses were stripped of their lime green paper wrappings and dressed up in burlap and lace. What is it about burlap and lace that is so adorable?
Adrienne, Adrienne, Adrienne, will you never learn?
As we gathered bottle to use as vases, we were putting them into boxes for easy transport to the church for the shower. I looked up at her and she had this odd look on her face. The look, that at first I thought was saying " I think the bottles would look silly and I don't want to tell Mom."
But then I noticed the bottle.
With her finger in it.
Stuck. Quite stuck.
Adrienne, Adrienne, Adrienne.
Telling favorite memories or moments with Lisa-Anna, hearing her responses to questions also asked of Aaron, visiting with family and friends, and sharing in her joy as she opened the gifts that will help them get started on a home of their own, all made for a lovely afternoon.
A big thank you to all who helped! Next stop…Wedding Day.
Love,
Dianne
Aaron & Lisa-Anna. We planned, we schemed, we delegated and it all came together. A very good day indeed.

Natalie, the maid-of-honor and Lisa-Anna's younger sister, cut out some silhouettes and I then glued them to old pages from a book, folded hymnal pages and added lace to come up with a banner.
Some miniature roses were stripped of their lime green paper wrappings and dressed up in burlap and lace. What is it about burlap and lace that is so adorable?
Adrienne, Adrienne, Adrienne, will you never learn?
As we gathered bottle to use as vases, we were putting them into boxes for easy transport to the church for the shower. I looked up at her and she had this odd look on her face. The look, that at first I thought was saying " I think the bottles would look silly and I don't want to tell Mom."
But then I noticed the bottle.
With her finger in it.
Stuck. Quite stuck.
Adrienne, Adrienne, Adrienne.
The planning, the scheming, the delegating all done, we arrived at the church and got ready for our Vintage Tea Party a'la Lisa-Anna Style.
The Menu
Pigs in a Blanket (lower Somerset County style)
Little Sausages wrapped in Bacon
~
Fresh Fruit Salad
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Cucumber Sandwiches
Ham Salad Sandwiches
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Scones with clotted cream and jam
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Chai Latte Cupcakes
~
Freshly Brewed Ice Tea
Lime Sherbet Punch
Telling favorite memories or moments with Lisa-Anna, hearing her responses to questions also asked of Aaron, visiting with family and friends, and sharing in her joy as she opened the gifts that will help them get started on a home of their own, all made for a lovely afternoon.
A big thank you to all who helped! Next stop…Wedding Day.
Love,
Dianne
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